When someone is in pain it doesn’t matter that others have it worse.
Maybe in that person’s life that is the most terrible thing that has happened.
If a kid cries because of something, you can’t say “Oh how can you cry because of that it’s so stupid!!” that kid is just living life, it’s just starting and at his/her age maybe that is the most terrible thing that has happened either.
So I hate when someone judges others because of the things that make them suffer.
Every life is different, a different process for every person.